Hello
I am a long term rs tenant spacious apt, reasonable rent.i made a mistake and allowed a woman to move into my apt. Did not give her anything in writing other than receipt for her aug rent + security deposit. There is no written agreement. She moved in August 19, even though she paid all of august. Within 2 days she informed me that this was now her lawful residence, and she intended to stay, then the avalanche of mail started arriving aug 20. Verbally abusive, texts me obsessively about how she has rights to this apartment. On August 27 I told her i will refund all your money but you need to find another place. I gave her 10 days to move out.
She has parents in Jersey, so she has someplace to go. Then she promptly disappeared. As of today, Sept 1 I, havent seen or heard from her. Cant serve her with papers bc dont know where she is. I have her last address. What the heck should i do?