Lived in same RS unit since 2016, all payments of over $100k in rent made timely.
When I moved in, I wrote a check for first last and security (this will be relevant shortly).
I replaced a toilet seat at $41 and deducted from rent, my mistake. Landlord wanted the $41 but I offered to split the difference. They declined and reported the balance to credit reporting bureaus, dinging my credit.
They insist the toilet seat is a wear and tear item, and they only have to replace the bowl if it breaks.
I do not want to pay them the $41 directly. I want them to give me back my last month payment I made when I moved in since 2019 made such payments against the rules, and take the $41 out of that. How should I do that?