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Re: My sister thinks I should help her keep the apt!

Posted by elsieb on November 06, 2001 at 13:57:20:

In Reply to: Re: My sister thinks I should help her keep the apt! posted by Kelly on November 06, 2001 at 10:43:16:

Unfortunately your sister made some bad choices, but you still seem to have a bit of history with your family and hold some grudges. If you dont wish to help your family then don't. It sounds as if they helped you @ some point in your life. If you have millions as you mentioned, I dont see the point in allowing your family to struggle when they seem to have a lot less. But honestly, with all the millions, you dont sound very happy; I hear a lot of resentment and 'poor me syndrome' in what you wrote. Out of 4 children, I dont have millions, wish I had more, but I have the most and always try to make sound decisions. And I've made many bad choices as well, thats life and took my lumps along with it. But I also dont beat up on my family when they've used less than 'good' judgement. I do have several family members I would love to lend a hand out to if I could, but I have helped them without the millions. There are plenty of things you could do to help them, doesnt have to include money. why dont you just try.

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